Marie Notarfrancesco: February 9, 2012

Obituary for Marie Notarfrancesco

It is with great sadness that I report of the death of Marie Notarfrancesco of an apparent heart attack at approximately 6:15am on February 9, 2012, at Frankford Hospital in Philadelphia. Marie was a fixture at almost every Mullen Family event and always had a smile on her face. She will certainly be missed by the entire extended family. Below are a few of the testimonials written about Marie by her family, providing a glimpse of the kind of person that Marie truly was:

From Marian Notarfrancesco, Daughter-in-Law:

Our Marie was the best Grammie ever to Willie and Kenshin. Our Grammie was the most kind, patient, loving, generous, funny and accepting person we knew. Grammie was just such a wonderful person and we were truly blessed to have her in our lives. We will miss your many hugs, kisses, words of wisdom and most of all your bright smile. We will miss you at Christmas morning, school events, our cool vacations, karate, soccer games and in our every day lives. Grammie you were always on the go with us and no matter what, even if you were tired, you went to everything we asked. Grammie you made our days brighter each day and anytime we needed you, you were always there for us! We love you so much and will always have you in hearts and thoughts. Miss you terribly! We are sending you a huge hug to heaven every time we look up!

From Marylouise Pezza, Niece:

For someone’s life that was cut so short, Aunt Marie added value to each and every day of it. She was kind and generous to everyone she met and was always ready to jump right in and lend a helping hand or offer some practical advice. She left a very positive and lasting impression to all. Aunt Marie enjoyed hosting parties and helping others’ parties be successful. She liked to be organized and plan the next big adventure. She was like a second mother or very dear friend to so many. She enjoyed all different kinds of sporting events from Philadelphia Eagles and Phillies, to Temple Owls, to Valley Soccer, to Action Karate. She was a proud supporter of all family activities including competitions, moving days near and far, and designing marathon apparel.

Aunt Marie enjoyed eating out especially Bella’s for a cheese steak hoagie or a delicious chicken parmesan. She always enjoyed a slice of Mack and Manco’s pizza along the boardwalk of Ocean City. She was a volunteer for so many things. She was a St. Clements teaching assistant, a St. Charles lunch mother, and most recently, a counter at St. Elizabeth Ann Seton. She helped so many people keep up their daily routines like Aunt Dolly, Gram, Mrs. Notar, and many others. She liked celebrating each holiday season either with a few simple decorations or a full ensemble like at Christmas time. Aunt Marie was a somewhat simple person and you could usually find her on Saturday nights at 5:00 Mass followed by dinner out with family members. She will be sorely missed but certainly remembered for all of her fine qualities that have left a mark on us all. Aunt Marie was the fun aunt.

From Patricia Sears, Aunt:

Marie was still in high school when we first met at a family gathering. Meeting the combined Notarfrancesco-Mullen family was quite an ordeal for a teenager but she came through it with her usual grace. We liked Marie immediately. How thrilled we were when their engagement was announced. On meeting the McCarthy's we saw that Peter had obviously chosen a wonderful girl from a fine Irish family. The first grandchild's wedding was a major event. How we danced and sang at their wedding! The birth of their son, the first great-grandchild, was a time of jubilation.

The Navy gave the newlyweds some private months away from family but eventually they moved back to o Philly with little Paul. The threesome became fixtures at family gatherings. They rarely missed an event. In 1975 when my mother was at Nazareth and then Holy Redeemer, Marie was there with us. She was a strong presence at Mom's funeral that summer as well as all family funerals that followed.

Mary & Nick began the family reunions after Mom's death. Marie always worked along with Mary. We could always count on Pete and Marie coming to parties on time or even a little early.They immediately joined in helping with any of the last minute preparations. Marie and Pete were present in January when we celebrated "Mullen Christmas" and Joe's 80th.

Peter & Marie took excellent care of Mary in the years following the deaths of Michael and Nick. As so often happens, they were often taken for granted. They were just always there for her. While awaiting her apartment at Gloria Dei she lived in their home. Mary moved two more times and they took charge of each move. They brought her to their home for holidays and took her to extended family events.

Marian was welcomed as part of their family when Paul brought her home and she became his wife. Being a grandmother was Marie's delight and she and Peter enjoyed Paul & Marian's sons.

Marie and I had many long phone conversations over the past ten years. These were often precipitated by the health crisis of a family member, Mary in particular. We met in hospital rooms, elevators, etc. Marie was always very thoughtful and generous. When Peter invited me to lunch at Holy Redeemer he made it clear that he did not think of this on his own; Marie had told him to "treat Aunt Pat." On the night Mary died, I walked Marie downstairs She paid my parking fee before I realized what she was doing. That is Marie!! She thought of others in little ways as well as major areas. Her concern & compassion was evident in allowing me to be part of the preparations for Mary's funeral. She also made sure Nancy, Winnie & I all had mementos of our big sister which we treasure.

Heaven is richer for your presence, Marie. So many people must have been there to joyfully greet you and lead you to OUR FATHER. What a celestial traffic jam there must have been with your mother, dad, aunt, niece, and other McCarthy's; Peter's parents, and so many of the Notarfrancesco's and Mullen's you met so long ago..

Marie, how proud I am to be your Aunt Pat as well Pete's. How privileged we are to have been a part of your life. I know without asking that you will continue to pray for us. One more thing, Marie, please give each of the family in Heaven a hug for us.

 From Christine Slegel, Niece, and Gregory Dougherty, Nephew:

If you know Aunt Marie, you know that she cherished her precious moments. Many of you are probably already thinking of the figurine collection she has. She does have quite the collection, from everyday ones to very special holiday and event ones. But I’m not referring to those precious moments, but rather the ones Aunt Marie cherished the most....life’s precious moments with all of us here today.  

She met her wonderful husband, Pete in high school. They have been married for 42 years. The one thing you get just from knowing the two of them is the honest love and commitment to each other they share. They were a team, the two of them. They knew how to work together, and supported each other’s endeavor’s better than most couples I know. Their love created a wonderful son, Paul. Soon Aunt Marie took on motherhood like nobody’s business. She even made her neighbor and very dear friend cut her bushes down because she couldn’t see Paul coming down the street when he was little. She volunteered at Paul’s schools, went to every activity he did, including her favorite Temple Owls basketball games while Paul was in the band. But her love did not stop there. She had nieces and nephews that you might as well say were her own children because that’s how much she loved us all. And as her family grew, so did her love and acceptance for everyone. She was so excited when Paul married Marian and finally gained a wonderful daughter-in-law. Marian had the best mother-in-law, and friend anyone could ever have.  

Before long she became a grandmother to two precious boys, Willie and Kenshin. Oh how Aunt Marie loved being a grandmother! There was not one soccer game she did not go to. She took her boys on many vacations, but loved going to Ocean City with them every summer. She took them to the movies, and had them sleep over on the weekends. Yes Aunt Marie cherished those precious moments with her grandchildren as much as Willie and Kenshin did.  

But, she also loved to plan a precious moment so that none of us would ever forget. She even made t-shirts to commemorate the really important moments so that we would always remember. She was a party planner and organizer. There was not one event you went to that she did not make special in her own way. She loved celebrating life with her precious family. At each holiday, or gathering she always had a way to make it special however big or small that was. Nothing stood in her way of making a moment special, not even distance. She traveled far and wide for anyone she loved. And she could not be prouder of the family she has. No accomplishment was too small to cherish. Marathons, competitions, sporting games, report cards, you name it. If you accomplished something in your life, Aunt Marie was going to be your biggest fan.  

Everyone has their own special precious memories with Aunt Marie because she was the “fun aunt”. She was kind, patient, generous and loving to everyone she met. Aunt Marie was always willing to just jump right in and lend a helping hand to any in need or just offer practical advice. She has left a very positive and lasting impression on all of us. She has given us so many precious moments to cherish. That is what I know she would want us to continue to do, cherish every moment you have with your loved ones. I know Aunt Marie will always be in our hearts, and therefore at every future precious moment life has to bring us. Although we are deeply saddened by such a tremendous loss of a life cut way too short, for her we must continue to keep on loving every precious moment we have together and make it worth remembering.  

Rest in Peace sweet angel Marie